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Automatic Writing Exercise: Pathway to Enlightenment

In chapter 7 of “How Enlightenment Changes the Brain” by Dr. Andrew Newberg, he gives an automatic writing exercise that is designed to open your mind in preparation for creativity and enlightenment. He takes you through different types of writing. First is a standard sentence. Next you write about your feelings from past experiences where […]

key to love: fundamental wellbeing

The Key to Love: Fundamental Wellbeing

In my last post about Fundamental Wellbeing I talked about people who have managed to quiet the narrative voice in their heads that spins stories, creates negative and judgmental thoughts about themselves and others, and self-sabotages progress. The reason I’ve begun studying this concept is because I’ve wanted to be in a greater state of […]

Fundamental Wellbeing Recommended Reading

Quieting the Mind: Fundamental Wellbeing

Recommended reading on how to achieve Fundamental Wellbeing and journaling my quest to quiet my mind and achieve the pure love of Christ I’ve been reading a lot of books lately including “Becoming Genevieve” by Genevieve Davis, “The Enlightened Gardner” by Sydney Banks and “The Finders” by Jeffrey A Martin. Each of these books talk […]

living large

Living Large

Four years ago I was staying in Utah with my friend Martina Muir. Her father had just passed away unexpectedly and of course there were lots of important family meetings and decisions to make. I was hanging out at her house by myself, and decided since I’d be in Utah for a month, I’d scope […]

Grandmothering a legacy

Grandmothering A Legacy

Our son, his wife and little girl will be moving back to Georgia soon and coming to stay with us while they look for a house. I’m excited to spend time with my granddaugter and get to know her better. During her visits here she has loved the outdoors: walking in the field, picking daisy […]

someone to believe in me

Someone to Believe In Me

This man is my inspiration, my greatest encourager, my deepest friend. The way he cheers me on and believes in me reminds me so much of my mother. It’s fascinating that Dave showed up in my life within 4 months of her passing. It’s the divine law of compensation at work… nothing is ever lost. […]

the spring that healed my heartbreak

The Spring That Healed My Heartbreak

As I drive on gorgeous spring mornings like this one, enjoying the vibrant light, blue skies, and colorful blossoms bursting from trees and earth, my heart remembers last spring. In fact, for moments at a time I am there at the time of my greatest heartbreak. It was March 11 when my 2nd marriage ended […]

space between your dreams and reality

The Space Between Your Dreams and Reality

“Don’t be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.” – Belva Davis In August of 2011, I caught the vision of the type of marital relationship I wanted to have. At the time, I didn’t know if the marriage I was in would […]

romantic connection

Romantic Connections: Pools and Oceans

Would you prefer a deep, rich romantic connection? Or are you satisfied with a more surface relationship? If you’re someone who longs to connect with your companion on multiple levels (spiritual, physical, emotional, intellectual and chemical), read on… I believe that no experience is wasted if we can learn something from it, and especially if […]

treasures of the heart

Treasures of the Heart

One of my favorite things to do is to listen to people’s lives, experience, and thoughts and relish in the treasures I find there. Hundreds, probably more like a thousand people, have shared with me a glimpse into their lives. When they do I say something like, “Do you see the pattern here? Do you […]