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Don’t Settle: Playing It Safe Isn’t Safe

A few months back I posted on Facebook about being analytical and deep and how I’ve always wanted a romantic partner who was too.

Most people told me to give up, that it couldn’t happen, that men aren’t wired that way. I shouldn’t expect so much from one person. I didn’t say anything at the time, but I highly suspected they were wrong because I was getting to know a man who IS deep and analytical.

And here we are a few months later and it’s truer than ever. So I wanted to take a moment to bust that myth. There are analytical and deep men in this world.

Don’t let anyone tell you what you want is impossible or doesn’t exist. I have been blessed to find the most wonderful, deep, analytical male mind. And he’s ruggedly handsome, passionate about life, totally masculine and creative, brilliant, spiritually-strong, adoring, fun-loving, generous, and kind.

No, he’s not perfect and neither am I. But we communicate with complete honesty and we work through our misunderstandings and differences in a way that is win-win and leads to greater connection and deeper love. It’s work but it is rewarding work.

So my message to you today is don’t give up… don’t settle… Playing it safe is not safe. Go for what you want. Where there is desire, there is power. God let me settle so I’d learn not to settle.

If you’re ready to stop settling and trust what your heart is telling you to do, join me for the Trust Your Heart Support Group.

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